Noses, hips, blushes and smiles are all beautiful; It is those who are verbalizing cruelty who are the most *unattractive*.

Make an example about something other than body image;
Hey! Do you love this painting I just finished? (is about me)
It is okay. It is great. It is not my favorite of your other artworks. The painting is weird but I love you anyway. (is about kind loving people)
You are stupid to paint at all and a lousy artist who is %#@#$ and unworthy of approval or support because _____ (is about the hate and cruelty of whoever treats anyone badly over whatever; such as a wrinkle, bulge, fold, bump, scar or pimple)

Dishonest cruel people are toxic and should be avoided (if they are mean to others they will eventually be mean to you too)

The control freak types are very aware of the status ladder system (due to their low status as failures, rejects, abusers, and fakes) but true ALPHAS (male and female) take care of the people who trust and need them, not injure/abuse/demean them. A strong leader wants a strong tribe and that starts with acceptance and bonding, not rejection and ridicule. At least that is how I handle the insults and taunts I get; I am loyal to the kind (*seek*) and unforgiving of the cruel (*avoid*). I have never had a true ALPHA or true BETA types berate, attack, mock or humilate me while insisting I fix an error or complete a task... just the underBETA class does that.... ever been a waitress in a diner? I got stories.