it is known at my job that my boss had a crush on my coworker D. Not knowing this fact I quickly became friends with D when I first got the job. They have drinks together, and the boss calls him on the phone on occasion. D gets special privledges like extra hours (part-time job) and can pick and choose his assignments.

My boss first alerted that specifically, D and I talk too much. It seems the boss was jealous of my friendship with D. At my review he said I am doing better at the job, with the one reason cited being that I socialize less. Well, truth is, I told D I don't want to be friends with him, amd in addition I've gone out of my way to hardly talk to anyone, while everyone else socializes a lot. Being so quiet goes against my nature.

I told my boss' boss about this all and he simply smirked at me. I feel like crying all the time at this job because I feel so isolated and picked on.