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Originally Posted by Trippin2.0
I obviously don't know your history, but there are ways to work around these disruptive traits. Mostly anyway.
I don't textually harass my bf at all anymore, I don't push AS hard, I have different ways of channeling the negatives. They still happen, I just don't subject my bf to it.
Just wanted to let you know that there are alternatives to locking yourself up in the proverbial tower.
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There are alternatives...and I actually attempted to employ them in this case. They worked somewhat and he was very receptive to them, but ultimately it just wasn't going to work. But this is the first man in 7 years who has shown any promising interest. I don't live in an area where many men I'm compatible with are single past the age of 25. I'm okay with the ivory tower. It beats the hospital and screwing someone else's life up for sure.