I agree that one's sex/gender should never be allowed to predetermine you in any way.
That said, going with the stereotypes, I totally believe that BP men have a bit more feminine qualities than found in men in general and BP women a bit more masculine qualities.
So men really-talk more (differently: more caring and accepting; including emotions) and women are more goal-directed and less risk-avoidant.
Sounds perfect, really. Then how could we possibly feel so guilty sometimes!?
Maybe because sometimes the former, sometimes the latter goes completely out of the window? Probably.
So never just show you manic side: all of you is beautiful!