I have thoughts like this constantly. Not revolving around intelligence or money really, I don't think that's gentrified, just personality. but I have done a lot of research on genderqueer orientations and it makes a lot of sense to me. For me personally, I just never grew out of a tomboy "phase" and have never felt comfortable seeing myself as a woman. I have a lot of vulnerability issues which is frustrating because I'm otherwise a sensitive person and I like to talk to people about their personal issues, it makes me feel more useful. This could be completely off topic and not how men feel at all, but it's something I keep returning to a lot which I originally thought of in an episode and dismissed it for awhile as just overthinking or loose associations but I can't seem to shake it. I saw another forum on reddit where they were considering a link between this and BPD and the switching of hemispheres and such and thought maybe it had a link to gender fluidity. I don't know how legit that is but I thought it was interesting