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Old Mar 02, 2016, 09:32 AM
ladytiger ladytiger is offline
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Originally Posted by Raindropvampire View Post
I am a BIG girl and always have been. So was my sister. Our dating lives were night and day. I have never had a problem getting dates and she almost never got asked out. It all comes down to one word: CONFIDENCE.

I know I'm big but I also know I'm pretty. My hair is gorgeous, great smile, beautiful eyes and a cute little pixie nose. I've done plus sized modeling and maybe that helped with the confidence. I tried to get my sister into it because she was beautiful but she always felt you couldn't be big and be pretty. I have always been very confident and apparently guys just react to that. I mean let's face it if you are FAT you aren't hiding it so just own it

I am the first big girl that my husband has ever been with. I asked him once what it was he noticed about me. He said first it was my eyes, hair and smile. Then when he actually got to meet me he said it was how overwhelmingly confident I was and my personality in general.
True, they always say confidence is the real winner. Hmm, I have seen beautiful women with zero confidence still get the guys well they are always the jerks. My confidence level goes up and down not really high at all times like it should be. My ex of 10 yrs loved me for me rarely do you find anyone like that. I was told by other guys that I need to look like this and that, have the body of xyz, then I'd be more desirable.
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Raindropvampire, shezbut