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Old Sep 02, 2007, 02:31 PM
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pinksoil said:

I feel like he's not my therapist anymore. I have gone through so many different stages of dealing with this. I think I am up to the "out of sight, out of mind" one. Well, I mean obviously he's not out of mind just for the sheer fact that I'm typing this right now... but it that's object constancy thing in a different way... like I don't even feel hurt right now. I just sort of feel like........ therapist? What therapist?

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This struck me because when I had those 18 days between sessions back in March, I went through all sorts of stages too. Then at one point, I said the same as you 'therapist, what therapist'.

I think I blocked him out of my head at one point. Probably a coping mechanism. I'm glad you pointed this out in yourself. I think this is exactly why I should make sure that I stick this out. Eventually, reducing sessions will become pain-free right?

Oh, who am I kidding
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