This is all true.

I am pretty sure he's not married. A quick Google search will tell me that; he's listed on WhitePages. And the emotionally involved thing went both ways. But the more I think about it, the more my BS radar goes off. He probably told me what I wanted to hear in our conversation the other day, which pisses me off. Why is it so hard to be honest with someone who is only asking for that from you? I may be jumping to conclusions, but this is definitely not the first time I've run into the emotional unavailability.

I'm really, really tired of meeting these emotionally unavailable men online. My issues are tough, but they are at least dealt with using some understanding and communication. I can't do anything with emotional unavailability because they just retreat and POOF they're gone...which just makes my issues a teeny bit worse every time.