abusers are sick - mentally sick - they single out someone for any reason they can - if you didn't make eye contact that would be it - if you did that could be it
if you didn't eat enough that could be it -

they pick a reason any reason - and if there isn't one they will make it up

my dad would feed three of us kids and let the others watch because they didn't deserve food - I don't remember - maybe I was inside then

sexual assault is the same they pic someone they can manipulate to believe its their fault - its not - its the abusers - they are sick

they are supposed to protect and they harm instead - sometimes because it was don'e to them ... that's no excuse I was abused I havnt abused anyone....

I think - just my opinion she would have found another reason - to single a child out - that's what they do

Itried to understand the thing that cannot be understood to - the what didi do

the truth is it doesn't matter - they did what they did because they are sick

it was not and is not your fault

more to do with their demons than you -

I am so sorry for what you have been through an so happy you are getting help

please take good care of you

P7