Good post almeda24fan. I also like this thought:
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So maybe instead of focusing on whether or not we love out T's, because that can mean so many things to each one of us, we should identify what individual feelings we are developing...

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So what am I developing? Trust, hope, the ability to express myself, an understanding about what relationships are like, the relief that arguements don't destroy everything. It's a new way to look at things. I'll be thinking about this.