It really was! At least the tension of the last few weeks is gone for the time being. It's doubtfull that I'll see any change in my youngest son any time soon. Don't know what hubby is going to do when he gets back. It would be like him to just "wait and see," leaving it up to me to ask John over or probably even waiting to see what happens for Thanksgiving. I'll cross that bridge when hubby gets home. For now, I've had enough stress so I'm going to enjoy the knowledge that John and I are okay. When I talked to hubby yesterday, he asked about John. I told him how it was at the party and he said "You two just can't stay mad at each other." I don't know how true that is, but we love each other in spite of everything. I'm gonna get all teary here, so I'm going to stop.