Do you at least have a therapist you can turn to? Maybe you both should see a t together and they can help you through it. My situation isn't exactly like yours (I've isolated myself long before my bf came along anyways) but whenever I try to talk to my bf about my MI he flips because he doesn't believe in MI. Since you're on this forum I'm guessing you also have a MI? How does he act towards that? How would your husband act if you spent time with your old friends? Did he want you to stop talking to them or was it your doing? Sorry, a lot of questions lol. Im guilty of dropping people when I'm in a relationship because I make my SO my best friend and devote all my attention towards them only. It's probably not healthy either. I would reconnect with my friends (if you even want to) whether by phone, text, inviting them over or out. I would confront my SO about them getting defensive and ask them why they are getting that way. Everytime I bring up my issues that I'm having towards my bf he just plays the blame game and comes back at me with what IM doing wrong. Yea it doesn't make it easy I admit. But I'm going to stick with the therapy idea and try to get out more before you lose your friends for good.

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