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Originally Posted by Xaldin
Btw I'd also like to ask...
Is it always the expectation for the guy to always be the one to ask the girl out? Is the opposite just fantasy land or what... I never understood the concept that its always the guy that has to make the first move.
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I'm a woman and I wouldn't say it's always up to the guy but many people like the thought of getting chased. They get flattered when someone makes the effort. I don't think that's always the guys part but it always depends on the person. If you like a girl then flirt it up a bit but make sure you're not being overbearing. Make a move bit if she doesn't reciprocate then back off. Honestly, there's nothing that turns me off more than a guy who's being desperate and overbearing. Yes it's nice to feel wanted but jeez take a hint ya know? So don't feel bad to make a move, just be aware of how hard you're pushing and pay attention to the signs.
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