Please don't take this the wrong way and I'm only going on what we do know about him. I'm not saying he's a bad person. Now that I read that he does get mad when you're around your friends, I have to say that this is somewhat manipulative and emotional abuse and also controlling. I think you need to try and talk to him about him being in one on one therapy because it sounds like he has some underlying issues there. He needs to work on why he does these things to begin with. I'm guessing this talk will not go well but these kind of actions will only get worst as time goes by. And you've only been married a few months! I'm really sorry you're going through this but he's the one that needs the therapy. The convo may not go well but it needs to be said. Maybe bring it up in a therapy session so you can have someone there to intervene when he does get defensive towards you.

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