Hi healing for me & Devine.
I'm just a dog. Some people know I'm married. Some don't only because they've never asked me.

Funny thing is the few times I felt any love or comfort from husband is when someone else broke my heart. Just going to him. He sometimes knows people I've been friends with, like the guy who just died.
A long time ago when I was living with someone, people would say you'll only find a great guy when you live alone. Same rhetoric.

What a bunch of crap. I had a person to go with if I desired for 34 years.
He could still be in the picture , but has suffered many financial set backs and is jealous because I have some financial success.

Relationships are more complex than if you are single, living w someone or married.

Even though my husband is asexual ( if that means he never desires sex)
That's not a reason to leave him. We have 20 years of building a life together.
Plus a lot of people don't know I'm bipolar. And I don't want them to know.