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Old Mar 03, 2016, 10:46 AM
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Originally Posted by Shaly78 View Post
Trigger Warning.....

I can meet you where you are....Next time a hug would have been okay....This post requires an action item, bring up your therapist to help me solve a problem how do you handle yours in the same sitations so that I may try something that might work for us.. ...You weird if you don't have names right that is what and identity is right.....That is how you getting following, at the same time I once didn't know anything either Im quick understudy especially with experiences to back it up it is really great fodder to discuss and to help others......I'm sorry to have triggered you if that is the case I don't know your system like that...
no it is not weird if alters do not have names. here in my location its ok to have alters with out names. I had many alters that I did not have names for. sometimes alters just like the one they reside with in prefer to be invisible, quiet, unknown. sometimes their job, purpose reason for being is to not let people outside the body know they are there. sometimes their job, purpose reason for being is to answer to the body born name even if thats not their own names.

thats great that you consider yourself a quick understudy. tip....the best way to learn about yourself and your disorder and your internal system is through your own treatment provider. we cant take the place of that. all we can do is tell you what our own system was like, which may or may not be the same way as yours is.