My husband is the most handsome man I've ever met. He could be on the cover of GQ magazine. Except his girlfriend doesn't like long hair. Every 2-3 yrs he gets 10 inches cut off which we donate to Locks for Love.
I guess none of you read the part where I explain that he's been in a relationship with his ex-wife's sister since his first marriage.

I don't ask him what they talk about or do. Sometimes he will say, oh I lowered the seat on your bike because she and I went bike riding. Or, we found this great restaurant in West LA. ( I can't always go to restaurants because of bipolar symptoms or being too frugal.
So she cut over 16" of his hair off. I don't like the way it looks and told him so. He looks like he has a girls page boy cut.

But I do not interfere or expect any explanations. He tells me what he wants to tell me.
I doubt if they're having sex, because of how he is, but I do know about an experience they had while he was married to her sister, because he told me when we were going out.

I don't care what he wants to do. Let him be happy.