The best trait of my husband is the way he backs me. He stays on my side. Like when I told him if I would have gone earlier to the bank I would have found out sooner that Luis was embezzling.
He just said. You did good honey. You caught it now and prevented future losses.

Of course by same token I could have ragged him for not going to the bank in Jan while he was here. But I didn't. We don't do that.

I have a saying in our lives. It's never about the would of- could ofs or should ofs. It's what are we going to do about it now.