Tisha-- I asked all of my friends.

Had 2 choices. Leave him sick with cancer, no friends( he was just discharged from the Marines. And his only pals. No family support. Mom and Dad busy getting a divorce in other states. No place to stay. No one to drive him to surgery.
Lots of girlfriends said yes. Bail now. Only 2 dates.

The other girlfriends said. OMG. This is the Lords hand. You have been chosen to care for another individual.
The non religious ones that also just said, you can't leave him he needs you.
So 1/2 bail. 1/2 stay.
So I stayed.