Liked this question (if it means what I think it means): I think that a wife knows her husband well, and when she asks it, she is perhaps saying: "Is it most important for you to have your own ideas validated (on the cost of not getting better from your depression if that is what it costs) or are you willing to try methods that might work, but that not lie inside of your own frame of reasoning?

I might be wrong of course. I only present one guess out of many possibilities.

Do you think I may be right?