I don't think its wrong at all. I think I personally prefer a less personal relationship-------like my old pdoc I absolutely loved but I had a crush on him too----he was an amazing guy and helped me through a horrible time and was probably the best person for it but now that I have more friends etc I don't need that kind of support as much from a T. I think the transference helps you acquire what you need in life outside the T's office though so it's helpful for a time in letting you know that there is something else that you need.