Hi Stefano,
I have to disagree with you because I really don't want to hurt anyone. I just get a lot of frustrated energy and/or adrenaline stored up inside of me that needs to be released. I think physical activity on an object instead of a person does/will work for me. If I'd hurt someone emotionally or physically, I'd end up feeling really bad and guilty about it and it really wouldn't do me much good. Although, I think men could be different so what you said may make perfectly good sence when it comes to men. Men just seem to have this violent gene that not too many women I know possess. Maybe that's just the way I see things because my abuser was a man. I don't know but I really don't feel the need to hurt anyone. I'd rather get hugs.