Hey there. It sounds to me... Like you need to talk to your therapist about how you feel. You see sometimes when the behaviour starts to come right then things start to come right more generally. Sometimes that happens... But sometimes it does not. That you feel like you have had to put aside your emotions etc and 'submit to his needs' means that things haven't come right. I just mean to say that your therapist might well not know how you feel about all this. But that you do feel all this is understandable and it isn't wrong.

Would you be able to print out your post and give it to your therapist? I would say that it would be better to try doing this before looking for someone else. I don't think that you are wrong to be feeling this way... But I do think that you need to clue your therapist in on how you are feeling.