I have this one friend, and I feel really bad that I don't want to be friends with her. She has been there with me through some really difficult times, and she tried really hard to be there for me, but she makes me feel terrible. She's always kind of in this perpetually stressed/angry mood. I often feel like the only way we get along is when I take on the role of her "therapist".

She has been much more agreeable recently, but even when I express something and she AGREES with me it makes me feel worse. I don't even know what that is. She just doesn't get what's going on inside my head AT ALL. Usually people have a really good reason for not wanting to be around someone, but my reason is just because...well...her! I feel like that's such a sucky reason, but I also feel like she's holding me back emotionally. My mind is shutting down because I have begun to feel misunderstood and stressed all the time. And we've been trying soooo many angles to try to make it work. We've been working at it for over 4 years, so I think I can safely say, it's time to stop being friends.

But the problem is that...we moved to another city with my brother, and she's our apartment-mate. And you can't just kick someone out just because. Especially because I actually care about her I don't want her to feel bad. Sooooo yeah, that's my situation.