Most people I know are the same online as they are in real life.

I don't think by saying " I am not that nice" girl met you are nice and she isn't, when people say it they usually mean that you did something that she would consider maybe detrimental or demeaning to you etc and she does not think it's wise to put yourself in such position. It typically does not really mean one nice and one isn't.

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