EnglishDave...I had to leave two other sites. One was out-and-out toxic and mis-managed. Several members chose to continue to email me off the site. On another site there was a situation as you described. One member made it impossible for me to stay, which was sad. I feel that Psych Central does not have the problems I encountered on these other sites. However, when online everyone must be careful, just as in real life. I hope you will always find this a safe and comfortable place, all things considered. It is, after all, cyberspace!