I don't think I could do it. I am the Mrs. My DH doesn't have a very active libido as it is. He is in his mid 50's, me in my mid 40's. We have been in a dry spell the last couple months due to him and I alternating being sick! I tell you what, I am about to burst! The last couple of nights I have been having very sexual dreams and it making me crazy. I tell you what, tonight, I am having it, I don't know if he is or not, But I am!

Have you considered being allowed to have sex (safely) outside of the marriage?