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Originally Posted by RxQueen875
I'm a woman and I wouldn't say it's always up to the guy but many people like the thought of getting chased. They get flattered when someone makes the effort. I don't think that's always the guys part but it always depends on the person. If you like a girl then flirt it up a bit but make sure you're not being overbearing. Make a move bit if she doesn't reciprocate then back off. Honestly, there's nothing that turns me off more than a guy who's being desperate and overbearing. Yes it's nice to feel wanted but jeez take a hint ya know? So don't feel bad to make a move, just be aware of how hard you're pushing and pay attention to the signs.
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Well that's the other thing as well. I wouldn't have the faintest idea how to flirt. Especially without coming on as creepy or weird... Or even worst of all desperate.
I have no issues actually talking to girls. It's just when crossing the "I'm interested in you" line that seems to be like jumping into an abyss.
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