Yea, it's a long story but basically, I also found out he had a bunch of child porn on his computer, he stayed with the girl he got pregnant (a mutual friend of ours) and they have a little girl who is now 4 (18 months younger than my daughter) and now his fiancee is having another little girl in about 10 days. He also killed himself in October. So it has been a rough 5 years for sure.