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Originally Posted by RxQueen875
Whether or not it's a good reason, bottom line is that you simply don't like her. She wants you to play therapist for her. Well is she there for you too? Many relationships are one sided and in my eyes that's not healthy. If she is indeed taking advantage of your kindness then I would distance myself. As far as you guys being roomies, that's a tough one and rather a big mistake. If she's doing stuff to tick you off then I'd consider moving out. But it really all depends on who's name is on the lease. If it's in your name then you can either pay to break the lease and deal with the loss or talk to her about her moving out. If you don't like her then don't be friends. Figure out what you want to do with the living arrangements.
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well that's why I feel so bad, because she's not trying to make it one sided. She's just REALLY bad at understanding how other people feel. She's just not intuitive like that. It's because of her past. She's definitely not taking advantage of me. I'm hoping putting some distance on the friendship will make things alright. When it comes to me, she just can't be there for me in the way I need. And she is going to get therapy for her problems. I actually think things will work out alright. It just feels really crappy right now.
I think I'm just feeling stuck right now need to get my thoughts out. And perhaps feeling regret for not taking preventative measures sooner.