I think you are courageous that you decided to act on your situation, and put your life on track. Congratulations.

I just want to add on another thread, someone said that she has everything she needed but a relationship. Ironically some people (whom I am aware of) who said to her to be content by herself and live her life were in a relationship!! I believe people try to help, but they tend to see things from their own experiences and situations.