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First, off, OkieDokie, if your only evidence that you're a "terrible mom" is daughter's accusation, maybe she's wrong. I thought my mother was terrible when I was 22 and, okay, maybe our family was dysfunctional, but she was far from terrible. Now that I am in nearly 60 and she's in her 80s, I appreciate the ways she helped me and the person she helped me to become. Maybe you're daughter will see things differently in time, too.

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We all have to live our own lives and if your daughter is making yours harder, she's old enough to take care of herself now and I don't see anything at all wrong with asking her to leave and get on with her own life instead of just raining on yours for a living! You have done all you can do to make amends for any wrongs you may have committed and now it is time for her to "move on".