Thanks for this Denise. I've recently moved to a new state and I can attest to the fact that making new friends takes time and effort.

I'll add one additional thought that sort of fits in the Be Persistent category. Not all attempts at friendship work out. One person I spent a lot of time with last summer turned out not to be compatible for various reasons. It was painful to let go as she was one of the first people I connected with. We are amiable now but don't spend time together like we did. I've picked up and moved on and so has she, all for the best.