I find it curious why such strong reaction to people expressing their opinions/thoughts especially if you asked for it. That's nature of online forums. You asked. People answered. I wonder if such extreme reaction is due to you deep inside knowing that things aren't good in your marriage ( terrifying loneliness can't possibly be a good thing) and things aren't your fault and you blaming yourself isn't going to fix it and you have hard time hearing and accepting it? Otherwise I unsure why you are upset. Seems that you shift focus now off your struggling lonely marriage to what other people say about said marriage ( and you asked)

I don't know why you focus on soul mate concept so much. If you are terrifyingly lonely and everything else isn't good either ( from what you described) then what does it matter if you are soul mates and what does it matter what we total strangers think of your marriage or concept of soul mates ? And if you are unhappy what does it matter if he is s soul mate?It shouldn't really matter should it?

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