Patty,

I am glad you came to this decision. It sounds like a very strong step to take towards defining who you are & what your feelings are....being able to express to him your real feelings about the relationship.

I am sure it feels good to come to these kind of decisions....a sense of independance to build on now for your future....kinda like the first step on the ladder of leaving the past behind & starting the life you want for yourself.

Good for you,
Debbie