Falling Freely, you articulated something I knew I was uncomfortable about but hadn't quite managed to get straight in my head. I'm definitely uncomfortable about that aspect of it. I know Ts have heard it all before, but they are still human and who wouldn't start picturing things they heard described?

You guys are right though. It's embarrassing drawing attention to my embarrassment! But I know you have to tackle this stuff head on. So true as well that we have been socially conditioned to feel shame about this kind of thing.