As about solutions people offer you solutions in every thread yet you typically dismiss it. I've never seen you accepting of any suggestions ever.

As about this particular woman ( why is she called a girl if this is working environment?) I see that you are worried she is friendly and equally worry she is not friendly and worry why she isn't talking to you etc and you also have crush on her. This sounds like a lot of drama for a work place. How much free time do you have at work to be that engaged in these type of interactions? Why is she called a friend? Do you spend time with her outside of work m? You guys talk on the phone on the weekends? Know each other families? If not, she is a colleague. As long as she behaves appropriately and professionally I just don't see how you can expect more.

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