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Old Mar 05, 2016, 04:38 PM
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Originally Posted by Shadix View Post
Sadly help isn't as available as you may think. To go to a therapist you need health insurance and even then good luck finding one that is available outside of the 9 to 5 work schedule. I guess the assumption is that people with full time jobs should not need therapy.


And outside of professional help, society is mostly cold and unsympathetic if not straight up hostile. Grown men in particular who complain about anything are labeled as crybabies and narcissists. "Why can't he grow up and stop being so self centered?" And if he's complaining about problems connecting with women, the backlash will be even more vicious. "You're not entitled to women you misogynist!"

See that's where the problem is. You experience society as cold and unsympathetic and even hostile . Why is that? This is your perception. It is something to explore in therapy. Why aren't you in therapy? There are therapists who work after hours.

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