Patty,

I am thinking that a solo condition is a really wonderful place to be after 32 years of everything I've been putting up with.

Being responsible for myself....not being influenced to run my finances in the wrong way because it is the other person's choice. Not cleaning up the house only to have it messed up by the other person. Having the other person not clean up his messes because he doesn't even see them.

Not waiting for the other person to take care of something & wait until I'm blue in the face because they don't like to anything. I really like being alone & I like the strong feeling it gives me.

Being solo is a very good thing....& looking back, that was what I wanted before I ever got married. I don't know why people feel like they have to have someone to be married to?

I hope you can find where & what you want in your life....because that is when there is peace.

Debbie