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Originally Posted by violetgreen
I had a crisis a couple of months ago, and so I became the topic of a lot of family conversations. My 12 year old granddaughter had lots of concerns and questions. She mostly wanted to know if I would be ok. Her concern was really sweet and didn't make me feel like I was ruining her life. That's different than being blamed for stuff not in your control. I think, your BF and step kids are putting too much pressure on you. How frustrating!
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Maybe they are putting a lot of pressure on me. That's also a reason why I do want to tell him. So he knows that I'm absolutely not doing this on purpose and I don't hate him.
This really did come out of nowhere. And strangely it's after he spent the night at his grandmas house (who knows I'm sick). This came totally out of nowhere. I'm caught off guard by this and I never saw this coming.
A part of me thinks my bf's mom said something to sway him into thinking I don't love him. She's done this with the boys mom in the past so no, I'm not just thinking this because I'm sick right now.
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