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Originally Posted by divine1966
Also if people are currently married or in a relationship it doesn't really mean they can't speak of single hood or can't relate. If people are in a relationship it doesn't mean they've never been single. Nobody is born married. I've been married/single/live-in-cohabitation/engaged to be married. I can speak about life in all different capacities. But the longest of these stages in my adult life was being single. As of not dating at all.
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I know. I'm not mad about what people said, just commenting on it. I definitely feel the same way about some of my friends who are pursuing relationships. I think some of my frustration in this whole deal is that I waited so long to get back out there and my first try was such a bust.*
*I found out some more info about him, long story short, he isn't married with a secret family, just deceitful about a lot of really dumb things and I don't know why. It doesn't matter, I didn't stop functioning because of it or whatever. What frustrates me is that I'm very open about my goals and what I want. If he wasn't interested in a serious relationship, there was every opportunity to either not initiate contact with me in the first place or to not pursue a second (or more) date. As naive as it sounds, I don't get it. I don't even kiss on the first date, so I'm sure he didn't think I would be an object for casual sex. Whatever, though. It's over.