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Originally Posted by divine1966
As about solutions people offer you solutions in every thread yet you typically dismiss it. I've never seen you accepting of any suggestions ever.
As about this particular woman ( why is she called a girl if this is working environment?) I see that you are worried she is friendly and equally worry she is not friendly and worry why she isn't talking to you etc and you also have crush on her. This sounds like a lot of drama for a work place. How much free time do you have at work to be that engaged in these type of interactions? Why is she called a friend? Do you spend time with her outside of work m? You guys talk on the phone on the weekends? Know each other families? If not, she is a colleague. As long as she behaves appropriately and professionally I just don't see how you can expect more.
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I guess it depends on your definition of friends. But I would say we are definitely more than just work colleagues. We have hung out outside of work with a group of other friends from work on several occasions. Nobody really talks on the phone anymore, but we are in a text group chat together with other friends. We do not know each other's families.
Our workplace is more open than what you seem to be thinking of as a workplace. There is no policy against dating coworkers and it seems to happen pretty often. I know of three couples so far who work there.
My worry with regards to this girl is that I mistake where we stand and end up acting inappropriately. I am always on my guard against coming on too strong and giving the impression that I have feelings for her. But I am thinking it is very likely I am doing the opposite, being too distant when more friendly behavior would be appropriate, giving her the impression that I have a problem with her.