If this is the message of Artchic, then we are on the same page. She just made the impression to forget all about relationships, not to invest in them, playing video games are better than investing time in them, and finding more time to oneself is more valuable basically than finding a relationship, because they take too much time and effort (but even if that is how she viewed things, I would respect that, it is her choice, and I would have wished to be courageous like her to not think about relationships at all). I don't want to make it about myself, but I play video games, and I've invested enough time to know myself. I am far from perfect, but I am not accepting my situation of being alone and waiting to fix every single flaw in my character before getting into a relationship, because I would sit another 33 years doing that.