Those quiet times are dangerous for me. It's when something was from my sub conscious decides to jump into my conscious and I have to deal with it. So I've learnt to read the pattern and just wait. Sure enough, something else comes up to the surface to be dealt with. Sucky thing is that it gets deeper and more painful each time. But every time I've been able to process something, makes processing the next thing a little easier. I hope that makes sense.