That's NOT babysitting.... You've become their primary caregiver, for free and without even discussing it first!


I too cannot for the life of me say no to certain people, I can however ignore my phone, block their number for a few days, or pretend to be busy.

I have a sister much like yours, while I love my nieces dearly, I no longer allow her to take advantage of me, and I don't reply to her immediately, nor do I initiate every convo.


I'm done with one sided relationships.

Your sister doesn't deserve you, and she needs to learn how to look after her own damn kids.


You seriously need to take a step back and have dedicated me-time in order to increase your self care, before you implode or explode.


Do it for you and the boys.