Thread: Invalidation??
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Old Mar 06, 2016, 08:42 AM
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Originally Posted by violetgreen View Post
Yes! I'm not on medical leave for nothing, or downsizing from a full-time teaching job to 2 easier part-time job just for the fun of it. I don't have a reset button to go back to a pre-mi time!
Right on! In my experience, just showing them what the functional impairment due to BP has done over the years, the missed and messed-up chances, the effort put in compared to the things you achieved, it far more convincing than to keep making the point that mental illness, BP, a mental disorder is real. Admitting there is a problem is at least a first step towards acceptance. And some people just don't like the labels or psychiatry. I can relate to that viewpoint certainly to a rather large extent. Heck, we often don't like them or really believe in them.

A good, similar, approach might also be to not emphasise your own opinion on the matter but just state the fact that you receive treatment, got diagnosed, and that they do that for a reason.
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