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Old Mar 06, 2016, 09:46 AM
Marilyn2016 Marilyn2016 is offline
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Originally Posted by mf1438 View Post
Sorry if I'm posting this in the wrong place. I'm 63 years old and I'm still trying to stay sexually alive.

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I like sex more than my wife and I’m tired of keeping all of my sexual energy bottled up until she’s ready to make love. She said it’s OK for me to masturbate to bridge the gap, but I’ve still got too many hang-ups to really enjoy it.

When in high school, I would masturbate to the lingerie section in the Sears catalog, over and over again. I wish I had Victoria’s Secret in those days.

What do you use to get aroused? What do you think about when you masturbate? Is it OK to think about a person you would like to screw?

It's okay to have fantasies darling! It's okay to use your imagination! I would say acting on fantasies in real life is an ENTIRELY different ball game. Are you saying your wife no longer excites you sexually? Have you ever found out what her fantasies are? Can you ask?