I don't know what you mean by "society". The world is a big place. it depends who you start sharing your feelings with. Typically people don't go around discussing relationship issues or what girls they like unless these are close friends or therapist or maybe their mother or sibling depends on a relationship. Sure if you start telling random strangers or neighbors or coworkers that you have trouble dating they would look at you funny.

I really don't understand the concept of " not having a chance to date". I understand having difficulty finding a date or meeting potential mates or finding right people or asking people out etc ( I've been there too), but what do you mean by " not having a chance". Unless you are in prison you have a chance, you are just having difficulty with it.

But not sure what exact difficulty it is as you never asked anyone out. You shared about many women you like yet you never asked them out to even know if they would be interested. I understand feeling shy so why not try dating sites? Then you can build up courage over time. Relationship isn't easy thing to find but you got to do something to even see if you have a chance.

Sure you can ask that girl at work but it is tricky as if she says no, you'd have to keep working with her. That's why obsessing about this girl might get tricky. That's maybe why she acts funny with you. People do date at work but it's pain in a neck if you break up with coworker

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