I think what artchic was saying is if you aren't in a good place yourself ( mentally or emotionally or otherwise) relationship isn't going to fix it. It's not going to fix anything. Also we typically attract people at our own level. When we are unwell we are very likely to attract people who are also unwell.

Also you got to be busy with other things in life. You have to enjoy things and be able to offer something to the other person. Hobbies? Work? Studies? Helping others? Nobody says you should give up on relationships but do you have enough to offer to other people ( don't mean money)

If you are retired and have free time why don't you volunteer? Or get a part time job?

My mom is 70 and she battled cancer all last year. And still she isn't old. She is out and about. My dad is a pain in a neck lol and he is older than mom but he still plays sports. And gets into hobbies and drives us all crazy with his hobbies lol but 60 isn't old.

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