My abusive ex found me after i got away and he wants to be friends. While we were together, he threatened me many times, was jealous possessive and controlling and was very mentally and emotionally abusive. He even stalked me. I really don't know if I should be friends with him I am very confused and I am used to his abuse (because it has been going on for years), if that makes any sense. I find it hard to cut contact with him. I am just so confused. Anyone please help?